Under the weather: What to do when baby is ill
Under the weather: What to do when baby is ill

Under the weather: What to do when baby is ill

Sam Tormey, health writer and emergency medicine doctor, aims to assist new parents whose baby is unwell for the first time. This ‘beginner’s guide’ takes you through the stages of assessing and treating your sick baby.

Welcoming a new baby into your life is wonderful, exciting – and stressful. Even if the pregnancy and delivery go without a hitch, and your baby is healthy and feeding well, the first year of life can be incredibly stressful. Sleep deprivation, relationship tensions, changes to work and social life, more time with the in-laws – these can all add up to a rather harrowing 12 months. And for many of us, it is the first time in our lives that we are directly responsible for the health and well-being of another person. That’s quite a task when that person can’t clearly communicate problems such as fever, pain, thirst or nausea.

When baby is unwell
When your baby becomes unwell for the first time it can be a truly frightening experience. Typically this occurs in the middle of the night, when everything is shut, and when you and your partner are feeling rotten with the same bug. All sorts of questions come into your fuzzy head: How unwell is she? Have I done something wrong? Do I take her to the doctor right now or do I wait?

‘First-time parent?’
I meet parents in this situation most days in the hospital’s emergency department, and the first thing I tell them is that I am always happy to see any sick baby, no matter how trivial the problem seems to be. Sometimes those parents have received the raised eyebrow and the loaded ‘first-time parent? query from the triage nurse, with the implication of parental inexperience and undue panic. Others – usually experienced parents or grandparents – have been on the end of the ‘you should know better’ frown if the child has been sick for some time. Neither of these attitudes makes you feel very good as a parent, and only compound your anxiety. No illness seems trivial wn you are used to having a happy, healthy baby.

Remember, this was going to happen!
When your baby refuses a feed, spikes a fever, or starts to vomit, remember a couple of things first: this was always going to happen, and it will nearly always turn out for the best. Every baby gets sick at one point or another. There are so many common viral and bacterial infections that your baby’s growing immune system must face. Some of these will pass virtually unnoticed, causing no more than a little crankiness or a disturbed night’s sleep. Others can cause a very trying week or fortnight, and some times the infections occur so regularly that your little one seems to be constantly sick – this week the gastro bug, next week the flu, the following week a middle-ear infection.

It will (nearly) always be okay Babies will nearly always recover fully from all of these illnesses, usually with no medical treatment whatsoever. Western countries have spectacularly low infant mortality rates. It is dreadful to imagine a baby dying, but that is the unspoken horror that lurks at the back of the anxiety when a baby is sick. In most developed countries, less than 10 in 1 000 babies will die in the first 12 months of life. Most of those deaths occur in the first 4 weeks of life (the neonatal period) and are largely related to the complications of premature birth and serious congenital malformations. Of babies that die after this period, Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is the most frequent cause. While it is awful to contemplate infant death, looking at the statistics can at least reassure us that a sick baby is most unlikely to die. Remember: this was always going to happen, and it will nearly always turn out okay.

 

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